By Marc Jampole
Call me
counter-intuitive, but I always figured that divorce rates were higher in
communities and states in which the Christian right dominated. For one thing, fundamentalism predominates in
rural and exurban areas, where there are really only three things to do most of
the time and two of them lead to sex, while one is to have sex (the other two
are drugs and drinking). More poor people tend to inhabit rural America than
urban or suburban communities, and poverty serves as a destabilizing element in
relationships.
It turns
out that I was only half right. Christian fundamentalism leads to greater
divorce in every circumstance—among the rich, the poor, rural folk and city
slickers. It doesn’t matter, according to new research by Professors Jennifer
Glass (U-Texas) and Philip Levchak (U-Iowa). Their paper, “Red States, Blue States, and Divorce: Understanding the Impact of Conservative Protestantism on Regional Variation in Divorce Rates” scheduled to be published soon in the American Journal of Sociology, demonstrates
that “Conservative religious beliefs and the social institutions they create,
in balance, decrease marital stability through the promotion of practices that
increase divorce risk…”
Yes, less
educated people get divorced more frequently, but the less educated
fundamentalists get divorced more often than the less educated who aren’t as
fanatical about their Christianity. And yes, poor people get divorced more
often than wealthier people do, but again, the poor Christian fundamentalists
get divorced more often than the poor non-fundamentalists and the same pattern
exists among the wealthy—the more you buy into the Christian right, the more
likely you are to have a divorce. Even non-believers living in communities in
which the Christian right predominate have higher rates of divorce. The effect
is additive: Protestants in conservative Protestant areas get divorced more
often than conservative Protestants in more mainstream areas.
I first ran
across the report in Nation by
Michelle Goldberg, but it turns out that it has received a goodly amount of
pre-publication publicity at least in the non-Conservative print and Internet
news media.
As Michelle
Goldberg details, the very practices that right-wing Christians follow to
strengthen marriage in fact make it harder to stay married. By promoting
abstinence until marriage right-wing Christians give teenagers the best reason
in the world to get married early—to satisfy the natural need for sexual
contact that most teens and adults have.
The children of Christian fundamentalist communities and families tend
to receive poor sex education and have limited access to contraception, leading
to more unwanted pregnancies which lead to more marriages made under the duress
of a shot gun (or AK-47, depending on the gun-toter’s taste in weapons). Less
access to abortions and social norms strongly forbidding this safe and
inexpensive procedure exacerbate the increase in unwanted children and early
marriages.
Then
there’s the pressure to conform: The study authors mention the pressure to
marry younger, but there is also the pressure on people who are not the
heterosexual marrying kind to get hitched and have a few young fry. I’m
guessing that more LGBT in fundamentalist communities succumb to the pressure
and opt for conventional heterosexual marriages, as do more of the asexual.
More couples who don’t really want to have children succumb to the pressure and
have them anyway in a fundamentalist community. People have an almost infinite
multitude of desires, cravings, preferences and inner voices. The more strictly
regimented the social norms, the more people are going to chafe under them and
become unhappy. And there can be no doubt—unhappy people get divorced.
No one
mentions it, but I imagine that the Catholic taboo on divorce prevents the
divorce rates among right-wing Catholics from approaching the sorry numbers of
right-wing Protestants.
I also wonder whether the very mentality of right-wing Protestantism plants the seeds for more divorce. The essence of fundamentalism is that all humans are sinners, but that we can all be born again unto the Lord. So if the social strictures leading to unwise marriages are strong, even stronger is the forgiveness that each receives upon finding the Lord again. The ability to be born again can both wash away the sins of the divorce (or those committed in the marriage) and justify the divorce as part of the process of becoming the new, more pure person. Starting over is what divorce is all about and it’s what born-again right-wing fundamentalism is also all about.
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